'Fess Up Friday

I confess that this sickness has kicked my butt this week. Tired? That doesn't even begin to cover it!

I confess that having 3 parties in 4 days, plus home school, plus work, plus aforementioned sickness is about more than I can take.

I confess that I am getting old.  I am telling my children constantly to turn down the TV when they are watching something.  I tell my hubby to turn it up when I am watching something.

I confess that I am having a difficult time watching my parents age.   They are having a hard time getting around and are in pain constantly.  My dad seems to have aged 15 years in the last year.  I don't how much longer they can live like that.

I confess that I have neglected my blog this week in favor of sleep and school.

I confess that I have neglected my house this week as evidenced by the dust elephants lying around.  No one else seems to notice but me.  Let's not discuss the big elephant in the room.  If we ignore him, he might go away!

I confess that I came as close to slapping a waitress as I ever have last night.  We went to a restaurant that was under new ownership.  We went with a large group.  As a server, I am EXTREMELY understanding.  I can accept poor/slow service and even being forgotten about.  What I cannot accept, however, is for said forgetter to then smart off to me!  I know what it is like being busy with large parties but I never take it out on my guests.  I left a 15% tip for the 1st time in decades and complained to the manager.  I will not go back!

I confess that Mamarazzi is one of my fave bloggers and I am thankful for her linkup today!

Oh the People You Will Meet.....

.....when you work on Main St. part 2. Today, I will be focusing on some of my customers without whom my life wouldn't be the same. These people bring something special to my life and I am thankful to have each one of them in my life. This is is a lot more positive than last week so enjoy. But, if you want to read about some people who just tick me off, then check out last week's post


1) the sweet couple who has been faithful to us from the beginning. They bring up their families from Florida. They come in every Thursday for 1/2 price wine and get the trout or salmon. They informed us last week that they would be moving. We were all sad and cried just a little. You will be missed, Mr. & Mrs. C.

2) another great couple who are fun and fabulous Tarheel fans. I love them. For Christmas, last year, they bought me a UNC long sleeve shirt and key chain. They said that they saw it and thought of me. Now, that is a great regular. Thank you so much! They just got married last weekend and I am so happy for them! Way to go, L & L!

3) another great couple who call me their child. They invited my family and myself to their house for a cookout over the summer. They hug me whenever they see me. They gave me a great Christmas gift last year($$$$) and just went on a trip to Alaska and wanted to bring me a souvenir so I asked for an updated bear with 4 kids instead of 3. I don't doubt that they will come back with it. They are like family to me. Love to you both, L & J!

4) another couple who come see us every Friday. They are so nice. We were able to grieve with them when their son died unexpectedly. We have met their family and love them like our own. So glad that their family is migrating South for their sakes! P & J can't wait to see you next week!

5) a man who comes in whenever he is in town. He likes to come to Mezzaluna because he can eat alone and not feel conspicuous. He sometimes works late hours for a local funeral home and wants to know that he can get a good fresh meal and a beer. He has recommended us to his coworkers and they come in and tell us how much he likes us and the food. When a friend of mine lost a baby, I contacted him for help. He was so much more than accommodating. J, your kindness doesn't go unappreciated!

This is just an example of some of the great people I have the privilege of serving. They make all the other yahoos who come in more tolerable! Thanks for those of you who treat us like humans and not robots and appreciate us for a job well done! We love seeing your faces every week and are happy that you choose us!

Oh the People You Will Meet....

....when you work down on Main St. Names and locations have been changed to protect the innocent(and the guilty). If you find any similarities to yourself in here, then I am sorry! The truth is the truth!

I thought that I would write an ongoing post of the people I meet or things I see as I wait tables. Waitressing is a fun occupation and I love it but you meet some characters both good and bad.

1) A man using a stall in the ladies room and then turning around as he is "going" and asking me if he was in the ladies' room. Why can't they at least close the door? I cannot unsee that! Horrible!

2) Bunches of people like ranch for their pizza and there is nothing wrong with that. However, asking me to go to the restaurant next door and get it is not right! Do you go in Old Navy and ask them to go and get you a t-shirt from Target next door cause it would match better? No, you wouldn't! You go next door and ask for the ranch! We don't have it!

3) A couple having an obvious argument at the table. Yet, every time I come by and take an order, or deliver food, or ask how everything is, they both smile at me as if life is perfect! One exception to that is the lady who got up and walked out on her fellow! He was embarrassed and left quickly after she did.

4) A dirty old man with too much money and time on his hands. Please. don't ogle the girls who work here and quit offering them money to go home with you! Not enough money in the world for that!

5) Someone who is of age buying alcoholic drinks for the person who isn't. That is illegal and can get everyone including the bartender and server in trouble. This can involve fines of up to $2500 and losing of personal licenses and liquor licenses. Don't be an idiot!

Stay tuned next week for the next installment of "Oh the people you will meet"......