Please try to read the article written by Deb Wood, CEO of Asheville Pregnancy Support Services. She and the ladies there helped us out immensely during our time of refining. I am trying out new names for my unfortunate incarceration(kind of denotes jail time, huh?) Those women also help out 1000s of girls per year with food and diapers for their babies. I am proud to be associated with them! Love you ladies!